Vowel Renewal

My husband and I will be married for 7 years in March of 2010. Three years ago I was diagnosed with interstital cystitis and well it has taken its toll. In april we almost split up, but worked through it. Now were married legally by a judge, but I always wanted to get married at my church. . My friends could not make it and what I remember most is my mother saying stuff, like its not to late to change your mind and you can still run away. To the point where the judge told her she needed to be quiet or leave. So we decided to have a wedding. We are going to write our own vowels. We are having a bridal party, and a reception the whole nine yards.