13th Birthday

What should I do for my 13th birthday? In my family we do an actual party every other birthday and this is one of them. I was thinking me and my friends could play paintball then they could come to my house and hang out and then sleep over. My mom wants me to go bowling. I don`t want to go bowling for my party. Also because I`m going to be a teen I want it to be better than usual. So if someone could help me out that would be appreciated. Oh and also I`m aloud to have like 4 or 5 friends over.