Need Help

I am a mother of three. I finally found the man of my dreams, that I want to spend the rest of my life with. But due to financial difficulties, I really dont think that its possible at this time. That`s why Im pleading for help of any kind, to pull off our August 1st. Of 2009 date we set to be married. Are there any sponsers in the Richmond, Va. Area that`s willing to help us? Any help of ANY kind would definitely be appreciated. Cakes, decorations, planning, etc.