Replying To How To Politely Ask For $ In Your Wed Day

I want to tell something to all those who said that asking for money is rude. First, YES there is a way to ask without being rude. Second: what are you supposed to do if ur wedding is in one country and after wedding you are establishing your residency in other country (or even city for this matter)?????? are you going to carry in your back a bunch of dishes, glasses, irons, mixers, etc...get the point??? I am going to ask for money , not sure 100% of the wording but I have an idea, for sure I will let them know it is because will live in other country. And by the way, reading all the things everybody wrote was NOT helpful at allllllllll!!!!!