Looking For Help With My Wedding/Sponsered
Hello, my name is Sharon. Me and my fiance Florence are getting married august 08,2009. We are really excited about getting married, we have been together for about 3 years now and want to finally decided toget married.We want this day to be speical. We have PRAYED about getting married for some time now, we both knew going into this we was going to have our ups and downs becasue we are two women.. (BUT YOU CANT HELP WHO YOU LOVE) well come to find out weddings are very costly is understatement.Booth of our mothers are past away so there is NO help there.. My father is on a fixed income so he can`t help us either, to make things worst our car engine went out. So that means my fiance has just lost her job she worked out of town no means no work.. We still want to get married. We have put off twice getting married because money issue we wont to move forward with the wedding. We put down payment on the place were we getting married. We just need alot of help now. So there is more stress BUT I KNOW THAT GOD IS GOING TO MAKE A WAY HE ALWAYS DO.. I`ts just us and it`s getting harder trying to do it all on our own. Me and my fiance are becoming stressed about all of the things that we have endored in just this short time from the people being nice to me over the phone then when we get in person and they see two women they change there way of thinking, All we want is a nice wedding that`s not going to break the bank or anything just something nice to share our love with friends and family. I don`t feel like I`am any diffrent from any other bride who is needing help with there wedding. I did`nt think that it would hurt to see what`s out there and try to get some help with my wedding hopefully with the grace of GOD we can find or get sponsered or get donations for our wedding. Anything will help I mean anything from a dollar to a PRAYER... What we are asking and praying for are the following... We are looking for Wedding Videography, photographer, for cheap i really dont have that much money.or who is willing to do it for free. Jut having a really hard time. I have family that lives really far away would like to see the wedding but cant make it down. A DJ. Someone willing to work with us. My color are light pink and white.if u have any lien color of light pink please let me know. I have always been told if u don`t ask u will never know what the answer or out come will be.. I hope by posting this add that I will find the right people with a good heart to help a couple who is in need and would like help with making our speical day come true. Thank You very much for taking the time out to listen to us.... And if someone wants to sponsor us we will do alot of advertising put yur name of your company in and on our wedding favors in our invatations and will go online and advertise like myspace, tagged,facebook, bloggers. Thank you for taking your time out and reading our posting Have a blessed day !!
Posted by shaon; updated 03/31/09
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Love isn`t about having a wedding you can`t afford. Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud. If you love each other and want to get married, either wait until you are in a better financial situation to get married or have a small ceremony with just you and your witnesses for right now. Go out for a nice dinner afterwards, and stay over night at a nice hotel. Then maybe a few months or a year from now when you are doing better financially, have a nice celebration or renew your vows and celebrate with close family and friends. The fact that you are worried about all the bells and whistles leads me to believe you really aren`t ready to unite with your partner at this time. Love is never-ending, so take your time. If it is truly meant to be, she isn`t going any where. Best of luck to you both!
Posted by NJ Bride & Groom; updated 04/03/09
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Hello thanks for replying and not so much of the negative things people can say.. At this point and time i wish we can just have something soooooo simple believe me i wish that. My and my fiance have been wanting to get married for 3 years and called off the wedding twice before because of not having enough money always seem like something comes up at the wrong time..i am more than ready, i thought this wedding was small 50 people shoot i have seen bigger wayyyyyyyyyyyyy bigger so i dont know than we cant get our moneys back from the places we put down so its either get married or lose the money we have we cant afford to lose the money. I know shes not going any were i love her wayyyyy to much and she loves me just the same this just not the only issue we have had before beleive me being a lesbian couple there nothing easy about. So thanks again for replying and some advice about the wedding and cermony could use some positive anything at this point thanks again..
Posted by shaon; updated 04/03/09
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THANK YOU AGAIN FOR YOUR POSITIVE WORD AND ADVICE. I FOUND A DJ ACTUALLY ON CRAIGLIST THAN HE SAW MY AD JUST AS I WAS E-MAILING HIM AND HE GAVE ME A GOOD DEAL 150.00 THANK GOD FOR THAT I REALLY COULD USE ALL THE HELP I CAN GET YOU KNOW. GOT A PHOTOGRAPHER TOO FROM CRAIGLIST WELL THROUGH A FRIEND OF A FRIEND SHE IS DOING IT FOR FREE JUST HAVE TO PAY FOR THE PRINTS THAT IS SOME OF THE BEST NEWS I GOTTEN..THANKS ABOUT THE CANDLE IDEA I WAS THINKING OF THAT TOO REALLY CHEAP AND LOOKS NICE THANKS. ALSO I WAS JUST THINKING ABOUT GETTING FLOWERS FROM WAL-MART THEY ARE PRETY CHEAP AM GOING TO DO THE BOUQUET MYSELF TO SAVE MONEY ANY WERE I CAN, SOMETHING NOW I NEED TO PAY FOR THE PLACE TO HAVE THE WEDDING AND RECPTION AN THATS THE HARD PART RIGHT NOW IT JUST SUCKS THE WAY THINGS ARE GOING NOW U KNOW. A FRIEND TOLD ME ABOUT THIS SITE AND CRAIGLIST TO LOOK FOR HELP OR SPONSORS SHE WAS LIKE U NEVER KNOW WHAT CAN HAPPENED THAT IS TRUE FOOD THE WEDDING DRESS I WANTED THERE COST 800.00 AT DAVID BRIDALS AND GOT IT FOR 150.00 SO AM FEELING REALLY GOOD ABOUT THE BLESSING I GOT. STILL CANT BELIVEVE I NEED HELP SO THANKS AGAIN FOR THE ADVICE AND GREAT COMMENTS OH YEA AM ASKING FOR HELP NOW I USUALLY DONT. BECAUSE I KNOW ITS HARD TIMES DIDNT WANT TO ASK MY FRIENDS OR FAMILY MOST REALLY CANT ANYWAYS BUT THEY ARE OFFERING HELP WITH PUTTING THINGS TOGETHER SO I FEEL REALLY HAPPY ABOUT THAT..
Posted by shaon; updated 04/03/09
