Inviting The "other Wife" To The Sh
My best friend`s daughter is getting married and she is making her a bridal shower. My friend went through a very hurtful divorce about 3 years ago and her ex has re-married the "other woman" who will be at the wedding. Should the new wife be included as a shower guest?
Posted by Lynne Rocoff; updated 07/25/03
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YES!!!! whether your friend likes it or not, this woman is a significant figure in her daughters life. She does have a right to be hurt over a painful divorce, but the wedding and shower are not about her, but her daughter. Unless her daughter is estranged from her father and stepmother, she should be included in the festivities. Your friend can be polite and courteous for her daughters sake, if not, she may cause problems between her and her daughter down the road. Tell her to let her daughter shine without the worry and angst caused by rift between her family. Your friend will not regret this decision, and people will praise her for her temperment and graciousness.
Posted by Sarah; updated 07/31/03
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Well as it stands with out know ing the full details i would say no, i mean does the daughter have a close relationship with "the other woman" if no then why invite her, i see no reason really, goodluck
Posted by kylie; updated 08/11/03