14 Year Old Girl Party Ideas

I need huge help. HUGE. I have no idea what to do for my 14th birthday party. Should I do a paint ball fight? or mystery game? or something formal? the list goes on. I want something my friends and family will enjoy and remember. But it`s hard to do alot of theses ideas in december. I live in louisville, ky and I need HELP. Please people help me!!!! my birthday short time away and i have no idea what I want to do!!! YIKES!!