My 14th Bday

My 14th bday is comin up. It neeeds to b fun, but more like a good time than a party. I wanted to go camping to get way from everything with my friends,, no supervision, but my mom doesnt like tht idea, ecspeacialy with my bf bein there too. But itd be awesome to do sumin like that. I want it to b jus me nd my friends no parents so we can do what we want, but how do i do this without my parents makn a big deal?