I Need Help P;Lanning My 13th Birthday!!!!!!!!!!!

Hey!! i rulyy need help . I cannot decide what to do fur my 13th bday! i thought about having it at night time and having a dj and like maybe a dance floor. But people can only dance for so long.. So i dont know if i want to have that kind of party or have a party with just some of my guy friends cause then i can do alot more where if i have girls come its limited!.. If u have any ideas to help me out i would totally appreciate that!!!!