MY WEDDING!!!! PLEASE HELP

Hi my name is Michele and i will be married on July 25, 2009. When we first started planning my wedding everything was going great until my fiance`s father was murdered outside our house in a car jacking. Things have gotten really tough for us because we live with his mom and most of our money is going to fix up the house which is falling apart, the celings walls everything. We are trying our best to pay all the vendors on time but things have been very tight. If any one can help out it would be really great and a blessing.