HELP PLEASE!!! WE NEED DONATIONS OR SPONSORS!!!

Me and my fiance are planning to get married in July, 2009. We are in need of a DJ, Cater, Photogarpher, A Church w/ A Hall and a Cake. Anyone that can help please!! I am hoping to find someone that can sponsor our wedding.
Me and my fiance got engaged February, 2007. I proposed to him on valentine`s day. I am a single mother with four children. I was trying to plan my wedding on my own and pay for it myself. I have no help from my family. Since I have proposed me and my kids have been evicted from our home. Me and my kids had to move in with my Grandmother for awhile. Now I have moved into my own place I am having financial issues. I am unable to work at this time because of health issues. My fiance help me out from time to time when he can. He still have to take care of his place until we are able to move in together.
IF ANYONE CAN GREATLY AND DEEPLY HELP OUT IT IS WELL APPRECIATED!!!
Posted by Lisa McDowell; updated 06/18/08

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Why would you propose to a man? He needs to pay for the wedding. Maybe he needs 3 or 4 jobs. Both of you can work hard and then save up for wedding. You don`t need an elaborate wedding. It should be about the LOVE not $$. Take your time, you already have four kids so there is no rush to get married. Good Luck!
Posted by Kiva; updated 06/25/08

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I proposed to a man because I want to! Wasn`t no one asking you for anything. SO MIND YOUR BUSINESS!!! Don`t worryabout who need a job. Maybe you(Kiva) need one. We are working hard to save for our wedding. You(Kiva) don`t tell me what kind of wedding to have. If we want elaborate we can have elaborate. It is always about LOVE and not money. Money it`s everything MISS!! I am and have taken my time. Who are you to tell me what to do? Surely not my mother.SO WHAT I have four kids and your point? That is none of your business at all. I am not in a rush to get married. YOU NEED TO MIND YOUR(KIVA) *** BUSINESS!!!
Posted by Lisa McDowell; updated 06/26/08

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Wow so hostile Lisa. Maybe you should ask for donations to get yourself some anger management before you go and make some poor guy miserable. LOL. I believe Kiva was minding her own business, or did you forget that the message you posted asking for handouts was on a public site???? This whole thing that has recently started on here with people asking for money is sickening. Gimme gimme gimme its friggen disgusting. Maybe your parents should have told you that if you want something you figure out how to get it yourself or dont get it at all. I didnt even have parents and I managed to figure that one out. Maybe I will post a message asking for a new Land Rover as a donation cuz I just really need one soooooooooo badly and I have 3 kids and 2 jobs and the world just owes my skeezy ass something. LOL. We are never going to give you or any of these other hosers a damn dime so give it up, stop typing desperate messages and start typing a resume.
Posted by lIZ; updated 06/26/08

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Yes it is hostile I dont need anger management. Maybe you and Kiva need some mind you own business management. I am not making no poor guy miserable. Yes I posted my message on a public site, unaware of things & responses. No I am not asking for any HANDOUTS. I only posted because of a friend. I am not & was not asking for anyones money at all. First of all you do not know me or my parents so don`t talk about them at all. I know if I want something I should figure it out myself & I have. I am a true believer of "if it`s a will, it`s a way." Maybe that`s why you talk about people parents because you didn`t have any.GOD DON`T LIKE UGLY!! Well since you are posting a message asking for a new Land Rover, I am going to post one asking for a new Cadillac Escalade. LOL. So what you have 3 kids & 2 jobs. Now I still have 4 kids & a *** good 1 job. The world dont owe me anything. Not even your stupid messages. KEEP ALL YOUR DIMES AND MORE. I don`t type no desperate messages & I definately don`t need to type a resume. Maybe I can teach you so you can get your 3rd job for your new Land Rover!! LOL. YOU & KIVA NEED TO GET A LIFE!!
Posted by Lisa McDowell; updated 06/26/08

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How good of a job can a person with no apparent language or typing skills have????? Hmmmmmm....... I wonder.
Posted by lIZ; updated 06/26/08

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Hmmm God don`t like ugly... You are all made in God`s image and likeness so I guess he does Love ugly. It`s If there`s a will, there`s a way. Does not - not don`t. I could go on and on. Oh and I thought you couldn`t work right now? Why would you put an expletive in front of the word job??? If it was not your intent to have people shell out money to help you with your wedding then maybe you should have re-read you post before you posted it because that`s exactly how it came across.
Posted by Bobbie; updated 06/26/08

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As much as i am enjoying reading all this but i think we need to eliminate all this anger because I do agree with people who said marriage is very important and it is every girls dream. I also do believe that asking for sponsorship is not a very smart idea. You don`t have to have elaborate reception. If you have good friends and family they will help you. I
I have budget for my wedding and am working very hard for it. I do have very close friends who knows what my dreams are and willing to make things happen for me but i can`t accept that because i want to do things according to what i can afford. I hope you understand what i am trying to say.

When i got married, in total it costed me less than $200. After a year now we have saved up for reception. Now i am celebrating with my friends and they all are very proud of me.
Posted by NovWedding; updated 06/26/08

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Not much of a church or religion person, but Im pretty sure God loves everone equally. Even the rude and tackless. You need to go back to church, and who brings God into an arguement anyways. Isnt that blasphomy or something? LOL. Once again not much of a church person.
Posted by lIZ; updated 06/27/08