Can Someone Please Help Sponsor My Wedding Please

HI, i`m a mother of 4, and i live in houston tx. My wedding plans are crashing because of the gas prices and bills,and everytime we try to save money something always come up. My boyfriend is the only one working right now, because we cant afford a babysitter ,therefore we cant both afford go to workA wedding is suppose to be a womans dream come true. And instead i am very stressed-out. If there is anyone out there who can sponsor my wedding and help me make my dream come true please e-mail me, and i will be very thankful and truly blessed for anyone who help`s me out.
Thanks
Posted by demetria; updated 06/11/08

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Every one has high gas prices. Everyone has bills. Stop trying to get other people to pay your way in life. If you cant pay for the wedding you want make sacrifices like all of us do or wait until you can. I cant stand the people coming on here lately asking for money. Its ridiculous. You are not in need of a life saving opeation, you justwant to put on a big show for one day. Iwaited 5 years until now when I can finally do it myself. I have 3 kids and a boyfriend who is the only one who works in the household. We all have issues with budget, if we didnt we wouldnt be here in the first place. Suck it up and take responsibility for your own financil life. Dont you think you are being a little selfish? I go without just to make this happen and here you come in thinking the world owes you something.
Posted by lIZ; updated 06/13/08

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Wow...I can`t believe that I just read that. Hmmm. My daughter is getting married and we gave her what we could, but she is paying for the wedding herself. 250 people, fairy tale wedding, she works and is a teacher, she babysits 3 days a week, and coaches special olympics. It`s obviously more important to her than it is to you. I don`t think anyone would willing to help someone who is not trying to help themselves. You don`t have to have a reception to get married.
Posted by Bobbie; updated 06/16/08

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First of all i dont think the world owes me a damn thing.secondly, i just wanted a little help,not asking anyone to pay everything for me.
Third, i have 4 kids and my boyfriend is the only one working also,so you dont know anything about me.to the person that said her daughter wants it more than me, i dare you to say that statement ,cause your daughter doesnt want it no-more than anyone on here, we all want the same thing you should be ashame of yourself, cause you have to lift your spirits up by putting another down,its people like you guys in the world that makes people hate one another.and im not being self-fish. I just asking for a little help, and if you didn`t want to help me thats fine,you should of just passed up my post instead of being ignorant and cruel.you guys dont have anything else to do besides waste you time putting down people that needs help,what does that say about the person you are.
Posted by demetria; updated 06/17/08

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I think the point we were trying to make is that everyone could use a little help,however, part of being a grown human being is learning how to work it out on your own. This is a wedding you are aking people to pay for not your childrens food or a life saving operation. I would just feel like a useless human being if some one else foot the bill for something that I wanted. Besides this website is all about people who are on a budget and looking to cut costs. What makes you think that we not having much to go around ourselves can turn around and give you something? Maybe try sugardaddy.com that seems like a more appropriate place to find the poor sucker to pay for what you want.
Posted by lIZ; updated 06/23/08

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You know what liz, im not to go down to your level, and im not going to dis-respect you, so again if you have to put me down to lift yourself up, then keep going,im not going to waste my time responding to your cruel-ness,and if you didn`t need help like the rest of the people on here then why are you here??seems like to me that you dont have a good life, nor anything else better to do, so dont get on here trying to make other people lives miserable because yours is.
Posted by demetria; updated 06/23/08

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And i dont need no sugar daddy for anything, what you need to do is worry about your life and no-one else`s
Posted by demetria; updated 06/23/08

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Are you OK? I mean really, I didnt put you down, I am giving you constuctive critisism. If you paid attention you would have read where I said that I amon here because I too need help. My help is not asking for handouts though, just advice and good deals. Calm down. You are really getting worked up over there, Just take the advice and move on.
Posted by lIZ; updated 06/23/08

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Sorry demetria if my post made you feel bad. But I guess I am of the belief that it`s the Wedding not the Reception that should be the primary objective - and if you want a reception then it is up to the individual to do what it takes (themselves) to have what They want. Instead of asking for a handout from others.

It``s all about a hand-up verses a hand-out.
Posted by Bobbie; updated 06/24/08

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DEMETRIA,
GO TO THE COURTHOUSE TO GET MARRIED, INVITE SOME FAMILY TO WITNESS. HAVE A BIG BACKYARD PARTY AND DECORATE. THE 99 CENT STORE AND OTHER INEXPENSIVE PLACES HAVE GREAT PARTY DECORATION AND FAVORS. YOU CAN HAVE A GREAT AFAIR FOR ABOUT 500.00 ALSO HAVE FAMILY HELP WITH THE COOKING.
Posted by getting maried t; updated 06/24/08

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Hon, one of the best weddings I attended was an outdoor wedding at a campsite. The couple got married at the court house and had a mock wedding at the reception. The bride, groom and guest all had a ball. Good luck and best wishes.
Posted by JoAnna; updated 06/26/08