My Dream Is Slipping Away

Hello,

My name is Violet and I am kindly seeking for help with financing my wedding. I have been with my partner for 8 years now, and he has now taken the courage to move the relationship to thenext step. However do not know how I am going to raise money for even the smallest wedding possible. This is because we are saddled with huge debts that we accumulated during the time my partner lost his job, and I was pregnant with my son now two. We are currently struggling to make ends meet, so getting married is just a dream that seems to be slipping away
Posted by Violet; updated 06/06/08

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Everyone planning a wedding wants to be able to afford it, including me. I can`t afford most of what I need, but I made the decision to do things to earn extra money to have my dream wedding. If you can`t afford your wedding, wait until you can. Why are you rushing? I would never ask someone to help me pay for my wedding.
Posted by notsofasst; updated 06/11/08

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I agree with notsofasst. I dont mean to sound rude but asking for someone to pay for your wedding sounds a little skeezy. You dont have to get married now. Whats the big deal. Its not like you are asking for money for a life saving operation. I have three kids and my boyfriend is the only one who works in my household and we are paying for ours 100% no help from parents nothing. It realy isnt that hard to make a nice wedding on a small budget especially when you understand what the day is really about.. Maybe I wont have the fairy tale wedding everyone wants but what I will have is the love of my life and a sense of accomplishment and self worth. Dont be skeezy, figure it out on your own or wait until you can.
If anyonne gives this person money, good luck to you sucker.
Posted by lIZ; updated 06/13/08