Re New Wedding Vows

My husband and I have been married for 10 yrs this May. Now our first wedding was in a church among all our family, but my parents controlled everything we did.(food music and guest) we could not even invite our friends. So our plan was to do something on our 10 yr,but that was May is it wrong for me to do it in Nov, when my money is right and not have a priest. I just wanted to exchange vows between each other,express our love and party.