13 Birthday Parties

The original thing is a great idea. But i want something way outside the box and much bigger. I want something like my super sweet 16 but died down alot for a 14 year old. I am lost and have no idea what to do or where to start. I feel like i am being mean because i am not accepting your ideas srry if i am!! I understand about the 1 yr old thing. You can always ask your nieghbors if it is okay for you to have one. Or if a family member of friend has a farm you could have a field or barn dance!! Good luck with your party cause i am not having ne with mine!! lol!!! ILY. W/B