Chilled Wedding Locations In Pa

Can anyone help? we`re looking for laid back and character-filled outdoor/indoor venue, hopefully with a barn, in the area around philadelphia. We`ve looked at all the obvious sites from partyplanner etc but haven`t found "the one". Ideally, we want the ceremony on (or near) the site, we`d love to play some games (like softball and badminton), then have a reception with a band (which can play post 10pm). We`re likely to have 100-125 guests and the date is mid may 2009. All thoughts and suggestions appreciated. Thanks v.much.
Posted by tim; updated 05/10/08