Wedding Sponser

I am looking for a sponser this is my 2nd marriage the first one was done a the JP office because it is cheaper. Before I met this man I was a single mother of 4 childern I just bought a 4 bedroom house. I have been trying to by things on my own but my time is winding up I have 7 months before my big day. I thought that I was going to be able to take care of this on my own but my uncle past away, my daughter went to live with her father. My money is funny right now... I need help please!!! I found my best friend and my lover he does not have any childern and he is a great father thus far!! With all of these things coming up it has gotten hard.