Wat Color Should I Use

Hi ma name iz cande im 14 and im having a quinceeanera and diz oct and ma cuz so iz she but before i told her ma quince waz gonna be gold and now her quince iz gold so wat should i do and her quince iz on oct before mine hers iz 18 and minne iz 25 and i dont now wat 2 do sooooooooo PLEZ HELP ME.and ma email iz ho****de@yahoo.com or
L****url@hotmail.com it dont matter which 1 but plez help me