13th Birthday Plans

I NEED HELP! I`M TURNING 13 IN FOUR MONTHS! SEEMS LIKE A LONG TIME I KNO. BUT I LIKE TO PLEAN EARLY...I REALLY WANT A BIG ALL OUT PARTY. ONE THAT TOPS ALL MY FRIENDS. I WANT TO HAVE A BOY-GIRL PARTY. AND I WILL HAVE ABOUT...40-50 PEOPLE. I REALLY WANT THE FACT OF PINK TO BE OUT THERE. YA KNOW FOR BREAST CANCER AWARNESS. I WAS THINKING INSTEAD OF GIFTS PEOPLE COULD DONATE MONEY TO THE BREAST CANCER ASSOCIATION. I THINK THIS WILL SHOW HOW I MATURE. BUT I DON`T KNOW HOW TO GET IT OUT THERE. BECAUSE I REALLY WANT MY PARTY TO BE SUPERSTAR TYPE. LIKE RED CARPET. I`M ALSO ON A BUDGET. ME AND MY FAMILY ARE TRYING TO MOVE SO YEAHHS. PLEASE HELP!