Need Advice
Ladies,
My better half has a friend that I have hated since the day I met him. He has done so many wrong things toward me and Erik and I can`t stand him. Being polite, I sent him and his wife an invitation. His wife is pregnant and is due on our wedding day. Today I got the responce card from them saying that she won`t be able to make it, but he (Erik`s friend) is HOPING to makeit. Well, I don`t want him at our wedding. And I am not going to pay for him to be there if there is a chance of him not showing up. I want to send him and email and tell him that I don`t want him at our wedding, but at the same time, I feel though I am hurting Erik. Although Erik says he doesn`t care and he doesn`t care about his friendshipw with this guy. I can`t even begin to tell all the things this guy has done.
Please help, how should I handle this situaiton.
Thank you so much
Posted by kristina; updated 05/29/03
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Well, sugah. U and i are in the same boat then.....if he`s half the jerk u say he is, then u have the right to speak out. He technically doesnt have a role in the wedding, so that shouldnt pose as a threat....sometimes u have to go into things like that balls to the wall. Put ur foot down. He sounds like one of those guys that doesnt have feelings, especially if he`s willing to come to a wedding ( no offense cause its probably going to be gorgeous) when his babys momma is giving birth.....c`mon now.....u dont want him there, i dont want half of dave`s friends at the wedding, and ive told him no....tell the human mistake he`s not welcome. Like u said about andy...he`ll get over it.
Posted by Crystal; updated 05/30/03
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Thanks, that`s all I need to hear to email him. I am going to email him. My opinion is whether his wife is still pregnant or has had the baby, he should stay home with his wife or new family. He is to ignorant to understand that though.
Cool, I`ll email him and let you know what comes out of it.
Thanks a bunch for your advice.
Posted by kristina; updated 05/30/03
