Westchester, NY Wedding Sponsors

I Just recently got engaged and I am overwhelmed by the idea of trying to plan a small intimate wedding in Westchester County, NY where I work and also live. I can barely afford to live here due to the high housing market here and I am beginning to believe We may not be able to get married here as well due to the costs and trying to keep costs low to save for a home . I have alot of personal and Professional contacts that may or may not help. I also serve on 2 BODs but I am not used to asking people for help personally.
Any help, contacts or reponses would be greatly appreciated.