WOULD THIS LOOK GOOD..?

HEY WHASSUP? HEY WELL I WANTED TA SEE SUM OPINIONS TO SEE WHAT EVERYONE THOUGHT..OK WELL I THINK IM ONLY GONNA HAVE 4 CHAMBELANES AND NO DAMAS. WOULD THIS LOOK WEIRD? CUZ I WAS WORKING OUT THE VALS AND IT LOOKS PRETTY GOOD ITS JUST THAT THE GUYS HERE ARE HARD TO FIND, OR HAVE NO $$ TO PAY FOR THE SUITS SO YEA THERES A 15NERA GUY SHORTAGE. HEY ANY SUGGESTIONS FOR WHAT TO SERVE FOR LA CENA? HEY ALSO..I WANNA MAKE MY RECUERDOS..ANY IDEAS? THANX !
LOVE ALWAYS!!!!!!!
Posted by Mariana; updated 05/28/03

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I THIINK THAT REALLY SUCKS GURL!!!!!!!! YOU DONT HAVE NO COUSINS OR SOMETHIN`
GOOD LUCK
Posted by Carmen; updated 05/29/03

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Yea i gotz cousins but our family isn`t exactly family. So yea.. Hey well i think it`ll look tight tho..im gonna have 6 guys.. Asi yo soy la q brilla and of course, we all want that on our day.
Posted by Mariana; updated 06/01/03

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Did you know that the guys pay for their suits. Not you. That`s one of the responsibilities in being a chambelan. You don`t need to spend anymore money than you need. Ask any guys to be in it. Friends of friends if you need to.
Posted by Jennifer; updated 06/03/03

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Yea, i know the guys pay for the suits except that the thing is the guys aren`t willing to! there ghetto and i know that they would be willing to do me a favor, but the suits here are really expensive, even to rent. Its something like $90 the cheapest, to something like $250+. So yea, thats the only problem, otherwise i would have a lot of guys in it.
Posted by Mariana; updated 06/03/03

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Then I suggest you get the cheapest ones. It doesn`t matter if they look good because hello it`s your day. The tuxes I had for my chambelanes were $120 w/shoes and $105 w/out shoes. Like I said it`s a responsibility they HAVE to agree with in order to be in it. I just don`t think you should have to pay because they just don`t want to. If they truly can`t I understand helping them with the money but not paying for it. I personally think that it`s better to get less guys anyway because trust me, you`re gonna get frustrated w/all those guys and I also think that you shine more with less guys. There`s less people to look at and more vision time for you.
Posted by Jennifer; updated 06/04/03

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Yeah, your right. Tu tienes que ser la que brille en tu dia especial. Not bad. When is your 15???
I hope you have a good time with your guys!!!!
Posted by carmen; updated 06/04/03

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Dayum girls thanx so much!!!!!!thats exactly what i needed!!! thats what some friends have told me, that they regret having so many people cuz it was a BIG hassle trying to get everyone to come to practice, to get them to come on time, and providing a ride to everyone who needed one! the guys that i chose all drive a car and all have $$ so i think thats enough. Yea i hope i shine that day cuz yea i think thats what we all want, and its gonna be a day that i will never ever forget cuz you only turn 15 and have your quinceanera once! =) oh yea, my quince is august 30, 2003.............thanx again!!!!
MUCH LUV!!!!!!~ALWAYS!!
Posted by Mariana; updated 06/04/03

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I was glad to give my advice. I hope you like me are blessed on your special day and nothing big goes wrong. I hope it all comes out right. Email me sometime so I know how your plans are going and to tell me afterwards how it went. My email is Jenny121087@bored.com Good luck!!
Posted by Jennifer; updated 06/04/03

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Yo homegirl this is your day not theirs if antything you should get some girls and no guys cuz you know how corny your gonna look if you have a party with all guys and your the only girl. What are you gonna do take turns to bumb and grind with eachother. Be creative and I know you got some homegirls and hommies and if they can`t afford a tux what kind of friends do you got. I mean are they scrubs or something????? Chica you eather need to straighten this out before your big day or dont have this at all
Posted by Jenna; updated 06/05/03

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Just like a nother girl said above, it is the guys responsibility to pay when they agree to do something like this. I also think you shouldn`t pay for their tuxes as much as you want to pull this off because we all know how guys are and their gonna become so dependant on you. You don`t want that Meja.
Posted by Jenna; updated 06/05/03

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Ok, Jenna you`re telling her that it`s her special day not ours and yet you still tell her that what she is planning seems corny. What help is that? Plus to me it seems that I helped her out some. So, Mariana whatever you decide I`m sure it`ll turn out fine. Like I said before Good Luck!!
Posted by Jennifer; updated 06/05/03

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Hey look my quince is coming up on august 9th, im so ecited, but anywayz look try to find a cheeper place that rents tux mines are 65 without shoes and 75 with shoes and there pretty nice, u just have to look around, and trust me its a big hassle with practices, i have only had 3 and im already gettin fustrated cuz the guys dont listen.
Posted by Vanessa; updated 06/17/03

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Look dont frustate and look my friend didnt have any chambelanes she was all alone but she dance the valtz with her cousin thats it!! Girl youre lucky u have 3 or howmany u have!! And how yeah if they are there with u its because they wanna help and if they dont help and estan con sus caras sacalos, y es mejor estar sola ni con mal acompanada. Good luck ,girl!!!!
Posted by Maria.F; updated 06/18/03

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WELL SAID>>THANX
Posted by Mariana; updated 06/18/03

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Hey would this look good ok muh cuz-n is having her quince nxt yr and well she is not gonna have chambelans she is gonna have 14 damas and they r each gonna have a shadow (a lil grl) standing with them like 2 show that they r grown and not a lil grl any more and i think ist kool so wut do u think?
Posted by amanda; updated 06/24/03

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Well-
I mena there was a girl that was saying that you shoould have a t least somegirl cuzins and if u don thats mest up!lol:) well i hope that everything works out and as for memories take lots and lots and lots of pictures and for foog maybe just some lasagna with salad and a dinner roll and some wine for the adults and punch for the kids or even sparkling cider!
Posted by Daniella; updated 06/26/03

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Yea well about the food, were gonna have barbacoa w/ rice n beans. N well i would have my cousins in it if i had any here, but i dont so thats the bad part. About my coming plans, i got my dress the 22 of june and Its its a beige color, with gold stiching, and little pearls and sequins and really pretty designs! its almost kind of strapless, but it has arm cuff-like things, its so pretty! Well, finally, the only thing i have is now, starting practices with the guys, and im only going to have 4 chambelanes and no chambelan de honor cuz i dont think i really need 1 cuz anyway, all the guys are there to support me, and i love my guy friends to death and i wouldnt have the heart of making one feel more than the other, besides, it would be a hard choice. So im just having all of them the same, and well about the tuxes, there gonna wear pachuco style hats w/ them cuz i think that looks great. K well..ill update laterz...LUV YALL
Posted by Mariana; updated 06/26/03

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Mariana and everyone else too-
Oh my gosh i relate to what ya just said
- i got my dress today with the arm cuff links too , kinda strappless, it`s white & really poofy!
-we started practising already... I`ve got six guys

But heres were we separate... I do want to have one special chambelan to my self because this

If i was u ,i`d leave it how u`re doin it cuz u guys are tight friends and all, and you don`t want to make one feel more special than the other... But my situations a little different!

Here`s how:
Guy # 1- my brother
Guy # 2-my couzin
Guy# 3-my couzin
Guy# 4- a friend (we know there`s nothing betwen us)guy# 5- another guy

But\
GUY # 6- oh soooooooo fine
Thats all i can say

And it`s not really weird or anything that i`ve got my brother and cuzins doing it because they`re more loyal and commited to this than my other guy friends,,,, besides there all pretty damn good lookin to be honest... So that shines even more light on me... I`ve got cute guys by my side type thing!

But i really hope sumthin happins with me and guy #6
Especially on that night... But if he`s all dancing a little close with another gurl thats were my heart drops and my quinceanera is gonna be a memory of a broken heart, and i`ll wish i was U marina!

I guess i`d have advantages and disadvantages with him as my escort, but pray for me please and that all goes well!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

P.s. Please help me with some quinceanera date advice like "don`t get jealous if he`s dancing with other girls ... Because he`s a chambelan and he has to"... Type advice

Please please please i think u girls can relate!!!

Thank you!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Posted by in <; updated 07/09/03

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Hey that #6 is gonna end up being your number 1 cause otherwise he wouldnt of come out so its all good and hey if he dances with girls you dance with guys. But save a little romantic one for you and him. But dont worry he`ll come around c-ya and good luck
Posted by c-shortyprincezz; updated 07/09/03

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I was wondetring how u do the waltz w/ just guys?
Posted by quince; updated 07/10/03

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Quince I could help you out. Give me your email and I`ll write to you soon as I can.
Posted by *Jennifer*; updated 07/10/03

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Thank u so muc c-shortyprincezz!!!!!!!!!!!

Oh and HEY Quince,
Maybe you or someone else is think`n` the waltz with only guys is like WOH! wEird or somthin...this is what we do with that

First off all i had Damas but the choreographer was a like i don`t wan`t that because it takes attention of you, which by the way i don`t really like attention, and besides there gonna be lookin at me either way... And i wan`t them to look at my beautiful damas...of course were in this together... So i said no,,, also i didn`t wanna let them down... But then there schedules got all weird, and we basically had to cut off the damas...


So waltzing with 6 guys is like
There doing all there steps and stuff then i get shuffed around in cool designs, twirls, spins, with a little bit of a waltz technique with each guy, get picked up around my my knees and lifted and it make a beautiful flower shape,,, the guys bow , and do cool stuff,,, it`s really beautiful,,, it`s sounds tacky but when u see it ... Your like wow, i wonder if i should have only chambelans?

Cuz thats was i thought once before when i saw a girl with 4 chambelans but they did suprise dances so i don`t

Thats all i hope i answer everythin!
Posted by in <; updated 07/11/03