Put Up Or Shut Up

I hear alot of "she did this" and "she ruined our wedding" and she "stole champagne" and she "cheated". But if all this is true....why is she still one of the busiest caterers in Columbus? She is doing my sons wedding and so far, everything she has promised, she has done. And when she was late (with the tasting) (death in the family)...she more than made up for it. If what all of you are saying is true....why is she getting so much work?