My 13th B-Day Party

I need help!!!!!!!!!! my birthday is in april and im turining 13. Ive never had a birthday party before well actually i have but when i was 3. So i want this one to be the best. I only turn 13 once and my other friends have the same exact birthday as me so i wanna top there birthday party. I really need ur help, i need 13th party ideas. Im so nervous and need ideas. My friends really love parties and go to alot of them and i would really love if my party would be the best party they`ve ever been too. My parents are old fashioned and dont respect my privacy so i need party ideas that dont involve spin the bottle, if its truth or dare thats not that bad but unless its a party in a hall or something boys arent invited i dont think. Because then my family and parents whould embarass me infront of them. PLEASE I NEED UR HELP BADLY!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!