Reason To Take Your Own (maiden) Name Back

To Lisa and all the others that like to live in the past, do you remember why you chose to change your maiden name to your married name in the first place? What exactly are you hanging on to now that you are divorced? I would think the name you grew up with would mean more to you that the name you assumed after you married someone you are no longer with. Identity crisis? I can see maybe if you share children, but believe it or not, people are clever enough to remember if you are the mom of children with a different last name than yours. What do you think happens all over the world where women don`t change their name in the first place? You are not empowering yourselves at all and honestly you just look like losers who won`t let go and get on with the rest of your lives. So sad. Shame on you.
Posted by jo; updated 12/08/07