I`m Going Crazy

I would ask him hypothetically how he imagined his wedding. Don`t pressure for too many details, this might give you an idea of what he expects and you can for from there. I know that my fiance imagined a big wedding with all the frills and with me being married once before many many years ago, I already know what hard work a wedding takes and he didn`t. Get price quotes on a fully catered wedding and also a buffet style dinner then once he realizes the costs he might change his mind. It sounds like he is pulling the macho thing when it comes to planning, but if you do the footwork and give him choices and prices, he may start to realize what planning a wedding takes and then maybe he will participate more!! Good luck and I hope everything goes great for you!