Monetary Gifts

While I sort of agree that putting "Monatery gift only" is a bit crass, I do feel it necessary, if you do not want an abundance of gifts that you dont need or want. When I got married I was registered, but still got presents that I never asked for, and ended up taking them back. What a waste of time for those who went shopping. One thing that has not been spoken about throughout this string of comments is the cost of the wedding. What about having respect for the bride and groom and provide them with a nice monetary gift. The last time I went out and had a 6 course meal, drinks and dancing IT WASNT FREE..
I have taught my children that if you are invited to a wedding, you should be willing to pay for the cost of the meal and drinks and then add the gift on top of that. Where can one person go for an evening of dinner dance and entertainement for the cost of a flippin kettle. Give me a break, Sure it is a time to celebrate with friends but have some respect and pay your way....