Bridesmaids In A Small Wedding?

I`m having a small wedding with about 75 guests. I have one maid of honor, 1 bridesmaid, one junior bridesmaid and one flower girl. Is this too many for a small wedding? I worry that it will look stupid. I have already asked them but we decided to have a small wedding after I asked. I don`t know what to do. Me and my fiancee are thinking of just not having any attendants at all. HELP!
Posted by cece; updated 04/24/03

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This is the perfect amount! I have heard somewhere that for every 100 guests you should have 2 bridesmaids. You are just about there. I think that you can do whatever you want with your wedding...it`s YOUR day!!
Posted by Christine; updated 04/25/03

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I agree I think you can do whatever you want. We`re having 100 and I am only having a flowergirl and Maid of Honor but that was our choice because we are planning a wedding in my hometown 900 miles away from where we live and our friends are all over the country now, so this was just simpler! Everyone keeps telling us we should have more. But this is what we`re doing. We have a bestman, one usher and a ringbearer. As it is, with the dad`s tuxes they will be ordered in 5 different states.......I don`t care what people say, and you shouldn`t either! My Mom told me the other day remember I`m the bride and I should do what I want! Don`t let anyone start stressing me out with things that shouldn`t matter!
Good Luck!
Posted by Jemmy; updated 04/25/03