Vow Renewal

My husband and I are renewing our vows August 16 2008 two days before our 7th anniversary. Our first wedding was a total fiasco it was supposed to be a big occasion but, the week before the wedding everyone who was supposed to be in the wedding party cancelled. It was in a church and all. This time my children who were from a previous marriage will be in it and our baby that we have who will be seven are all going to be in the wedding party. We will have the same best man and my sister will be my maid of honor. The wedding will be our back yard since it is very huge and the reception in our kitchen. We have no pictures from before. So this time I plan to take lots of pictures. I want my dad to walk with me but, I dont know if this is proper.