Wedding Next Week, Anyone?

Patti.. I TOTALLY know what you mean... I get married next week on april 26th and i feel like i am pulling out my hair!!! i just fel like i will for get something at home. This is my second wedding also, my first wedding wasnt as beautiful as this one is turning out ( this WILLme my last wedding) lol..
I can totally relate to what you are saying, My fiancee and I are the ones that are putting together are wedding with out anyones help.I think im mostly stressing about if my parents will make it to my wedding or not, i live in washngton state and they live in CA. Im stressing about them telling me everyday <"i dont know if my work will let me go" topic out of them. And if my dad isnt here who will walk me down the isle. I dont know if i should ask some one now if my dad isnt here will they or not.
Also, stressing about me having a millions things to do on my wedding day... Picking up my flowers at one location, picking up my cake at another location,going to my hair appt. On time,then going to my make-up appt. On time. Ugghhhhhh i think you got my point.... Plus having to get to the Rev. Early for pics.
When are you getting married?? what colors did you pik??
My colors are light pink ( idont know how i got way with this ;0) )white and silver.
My soon to be mother in law just tells me to "relax" but i think it is very hard!!
Also one more thing, i sent out are invations 1 month in advance and only 4 people sent there RSVP`s back nd we invited close to 100 guest..IM CLUELESS ABOUT WHO IS ALL SHOWING UP!!
Anyways would like to here from you ..
Sorry i wrote so much

Hi Mandee!
Youi sound just like me! I`m also getting married on the 26th at 3 pm. I hate everyone telling me not to stress but who else will get things done? I`m here in So.Ca. And he has quite a few relatives coming from out of state and they are staying with us! I sent out over 200 invitations, with no RSVP`s, I just figured that about 20% will not showup. I`ve done RSVP`s on other things and never get a responce. So I figired why waste my money on the stamps, this wedding is adding up by the minute.
I hear you about on the wedding day, we can`t get into the center where we are having the reception until 1pm and the wedding is at 3pm, talk about stress! I do have a big group of family that will be helping with that.
On top of all this, I am 3 months post op, I had a spine fusion on Jan 26, rods and screws and very painful. I do feel a lot better, but will only be able to slow dance. And since i`m stressing so much it makes it hurt more, along with this weather doesn`t help. Thats another thing, I hope it doesn`t rain!!!
Then I have the groom waiting til the last minute to do things. Like his ring, don`t have it yet! The drinks for the reception, don`t have it. This doesn`t include his ex wife trying to stop the whole thing, what am I doing!!!
My colors are plum and ivory, yours sounds really nice together! There is so much more to this whole wedding, I would love it if you email me and we can at least know someone who is going through the same thing (Patnoscar@aol.com)
Do you have you own children in the wedding? My first marriage was in Vegas 23 years ago, married for 20 years. So I wanted to have a wedding the second time.
I have so many emotions even told him I wanted out last week. Anyways email me and we can go into more detail, I would love to hear from you! Patti

My wedding isn`t tell next year but this is my second marriage and my first wedding too. I am so confused and thinking I will forget somethig to. Good luck and keep your chin up