I DONT KNOW WHAT TO DO!?!??!

Heyy...I need help I want othave a boy girl party ffor my upcomming birthday when i turn 13! But i dont no what to do I like three guys I am pretty sure all of them like me they are liek my bfflad! But I really like this one guy and i want ot play a game and maybe dance a little with guyss! But i need helpp i dont no what to do either play flirty games but is that tooo flirty?? Should I grind with guyss?? I am not sure if i can have a boy girl partyy i think it would be ok wwith my mom but i am not sooo sure about my dad he is sooo over protective!!