14th Birthday Party Help Please?

I`m turning 14 in 35 days. People keep saying I have plenty of time to plan a party that I don`t need to start for a few weeks but I have to have everything perfect so there can`t be any mistakes. I usually have everything planned a year in advance but I changed my mind I`m sick of having a pool/lake party every year. This year I want something special so it will be talked about like all my other partys, and people will ask why they weren`t invited (5th grade it was the talk for an entire week atleast 4 people asked why they weren`t invited most of them were my enemys.) I want to have a coed because there will be more boys and all my ideas are only girls. I was thinking something like Magical Midway or Universal. I live in Orlando Fl so I`m close to all the theme parks. Please help!