My Quince???!!!!! HELP

OK HEY GUYS MY MOM SAID IM GETTINING A QUINCE NOT SWEET 16!!!!! IM PART SPANISH BUT NOT THAT MUCH! SHE SAID IT WAS CUZ SINCE IM HATIAN MOST HATIANS HAVE IT THAT WAY! BUT I DONT KNO ANYTHING ABOUT QUINCENAERA! I WATCH MY SUPER SWEET 16 ALL THE TIME AND WHEN I SEE GIRLS HAVING THEIR QUINCE AND THEY HAVE SOMETHING CALLED A COURT! A GROUP OF PPL AND THEY DANCE AT THE PARTY RIGHT??!!! I DUNNO! WELL THATS WHAT I SAW! I DUNT KNO IF I SHOULD MAKE IT JUST LIKE A SWEET 16 THO. MAYBE I SHOULD AND FORGET ABOUT THE TRADITION BEACAUSE NO 1 IN MY FAMILY KNO`S QUINCE SPANISH TRADITION! WHAT SHOULD I DO??? I WANTED TO HAVE A SWEET 16 IN THE FIRST PLACE. I GUESS MAYBE I CAN LEARN ABOUT THE THE TRADITIONAL WAY OF CELEBRATING A QUINCE! HELP ME OK PLZ