Summer Wedding Nitemare

I think it is lame that you are worried about what color you are or friend is. So what if you are the only white person there, that shouldn`t matter. Go to her wedding as a friend and as a person, not thinkin about your color or hers. If you are putting a label on her color then you are not really a true friend to begin with. My friend is black, and I am not but I never look at her or myself any different. We are the same and equal, and she is one of my bridesmaid at my wedding.

I couldn`t agree more with Kathy. Friendship doesn`t look at skin color, financial status or anything other then that person. I am mexican/black and my fiance is black. All of the men standing up are black and only 1 of my bridesmaid`s is. What significance does that have on the fact that I am having my best of friends standing next to me when I say I do??? Absolutely nothing. I think your friend feels the same way as us - color has absolutely nothing to do with it. If it had, I don`t think you would have been invited to the wedding to begin with.....but that`s just my opinion.