Bridesmaids

Hello,

I`m starting to plan my wedding for april of 2004 and I`m not sure how to go about asking my future bridesmaids if they would be in my wedding. I live 3000 miles away from everyone so I kinda would like to know for sure as early as possible so we can figure on the groomsmen as well. Should I mail them something or ask over the phone? Any helpful suggestions would be greatly appreciated

Thanks so much!
Posted by Mary Loughner; updated 03/25/03

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I called and asked my bridesmaids that were from out of town and then after I asked and they said yes I sent them homemade stamped cards that read "As my friend you share my life" and on the inside it said "As my bridesmaid you share my dreams" and then I just wrote a little thank you to them for saying yes and how special it really was to me that they would participate in my wedding and would take time out of their lives to be there for me on the biggest day of mine. They were a pretty big hit and everyone loved them.
Posted by Christine; updated 03/26/03