I Need Advice/Help!!!!!

Does anyone have any good gift ideas for parents of the bride and groom??? My parents are separated, and his are together. I have NO IDEA what to get them!! Also, I am planning on having the rehearsal ceremony directed by a friend instead of hiring a wedding coordinator (tight budget). Does anyone know how everyone is supposed to enter and stand and whatnot. As in, does the maid of honor enter first, or the last bridesmaid. Are the groomsmen already standing up there? I have no idea how this works. It`s a very informal wedding (beach) but w/ a pretty large bridal party (6 maids, 6 groomsmen 1 ring bearer) I would really appreciate ANY advice :-).
Posted by Shannon; updated 05/17/07

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My suggestion for gifts...get each of your parents a nice frame that you can put a wedding picture of you into afterwards. They made really cute ones for the Father of the Bride that has a space for a picture of you as a little girl...maybe one of his favorites, and then one on your wedding day and an inscription that says "I`ll always be Daddy`s Little Girl" or something like that. His parents could could share one since they are still together.

Re: the ceremony processional...usually the guys and the groom stand at the alter with the officiant and only the girls come down the aisle, although it is also proper to have the attendants come down as couples. The last (and generally shortest) BM goes first and the Maid of Honor is right in front of the bride. If there are flowergirl/ringbearer...they proceed right in front of the MOH. Then the bride with her Father...bride on his right. At the alter area, the bride and Dad stand together until the officiant asks `who gives this woman to be married" He says "I do" or "Her mother and I do" and then presents the brides hand to the groom, gives her a kiss and sits down, while the groom escorts the bride the rest of the way to the officiant. For the ring exchange, the bride hands her bouquet off to the MOH to hold. The MOH gives it back right after the couple have been pronounced man and wife. Everyone goes back down the aisle in couples after the B and G.

If I didn`t answer all your questions, I`ll write again. I cannot read yours while answering. Happy to help with anything else too. JoAnne
Posted by JoAnne; updated 05/17/07

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JoAnn,
Thanks so much for your ideas and advice!!!! You really helped me out!!! I love the idea about the frames, and especially the one for my dad :-). I already have a pic. In mind that I could use for the younger pic. Again, thanks! :-)
Posted by Shannon; updated 05/18/07