A Very Tight Budget For A Wedding

My wedding is planed for May 18, 2007 to the man of my life. We have been together for 17 years, and are finally gone to tie the knot.. The thing is We are really strapped for money, we ddint expect to have to move a month b4 the wedding. And I have 7 childen of which 6 are mine and I also have been raisng a nephew that has been with me since the age of 2. My boys are grown, and I am now raising 3 girls of which my one daughter and nephew are 12 and the other girls are 3 and 1. I`m not looking for free hand outs, just looking for a break in buying things... I have my invitations already and my favors. Its gone to be a wedding that will take place in my backyard. Well any suggestions or know of anyone that can help, would be greatly appreciated. I waited all these years tog t married.