Surprise Party

My son and mother recently threw me a surprise 50th birthday party. I am hurt and angry and most likely will never speak to either one of them again. They went against my will and my pleas not to do anything of this nature. My 50th birthday is today, Wednesday, February 14, Valentines Day. The party was Sunday. Since I’m angry and have “offended” them, nobody is bothering to call and wish me a happy birthday or send gifts or anything. I am the “Bad Guy” for something I had no control over because it was a sneak attack stab in the back. I am certain I am not the only one who hates surprises, and am distressed because they did this and now I am the jerk. I begged them not to do this sort of thing, stating I would walk out if they did, which I didn’t because the people who were there were innocent, but I wonder why people who claim to love and have your interests at heart do this sort of thing. I feel like the world’s worst criminal today, on my 50th birthday, over something which should not have ever taken place.