What To Do

My husband and i will be married for 4 years this august next year (our 5 year mark) we are going to renew our vows because we didn`t have a real wedding the first time (it was in the justice of the peace) we are going to do it again and do it right. I keep hearing different stories and different ways to do things so i am kinda looking for some feedback . My question is should i go all out like it was my first wedding or should i just do something small i think go all out but others say different?????