Encorporating 8 Year Old Daughter In Wedding

Any suggestions for involving my daughter (age 8) in the wedding? I would rather not have her as a flower girl. I want something "special" for her
Posted by Denise; updated 01/22/07

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Have her light the unity candle instead of your mom. Or have her as a a bridesmaid. Just because she is 8 doent mean that she has to be the flower girl.
Posted by Rev Maggie; updated 01/22/07

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Posted by Lisa Klipfel; updated 01/22/07

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Hi Denise,
I am a wedding photographer and I have a few ideas for you.
Think about it, a large part of feeling special in a wedding is getting all dressed up and feeling "pretty".

Have your daughter`s dress be specially made for her. Now, during the procession, you can have her walk the isle right before you come in, carrying a prominent flower arrangement which she would place at the altar as a center piece.

Another version is for her to be waiting at the altar for you. Once you reach the altar, you will hand her your bouquet for the duration of the ceremony. Just before you walk down the isle with your husband, she would then hand you back your bouquet and follow right after you.

The last idea has worked well with girls who are not shy. Again, giving her a prominent order of involvement.
Just before your turn to walk up to the altar, have her and her best friend (Optional) take a pretty basket full of white tulle (one each), and have them loop the white tulle around each pew of the church as they walk up the isle toward the altar.
It gives them a special part, it adds decorative tones to the procession, and she has a friend to do this with.

Love to help, let me know
Ruthy at Kathryn Kelly Photography O’do Fla.
Posted by Ruthy; updated 01/23/07

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Well I have a 8 year son and 6 year old daughter. My daughter is going to be my jr Bride and my son is going to walk with her. She will even wear the same dress as me with the veil and tiera.
Posted by Ebony; updated 01/24/07

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Thank everyone for such great ideas. I went to my first bridal show last week and took her with me. She was so great looking at everything and telling me what she liked and didn`t like.
Posted by Denise; updated 01/25/07

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Hi, well, I have a nice option. To give her a Unity Pendant. If you like I can email you a picture of what it looks like. Essentially, it`s involving her in the wedding & bringing the new spouse into the family and making the family one. Please email me and I will get the pictures out to you. Woodrum.kelly@sparklingcelebrations.com
Posted by Kelly Woodrum; updated 01/30/07

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Another option is to have her give your hand to your new husband. Have her be part of who gives this woman to this man...have he stand and your father could say her daughter, mom and I.
Posted by Bianka; updated 02/03/07