Crafty Wording

I have a sticky wording question for my announcements, here is the scenario:

As the bride (Jessica Hawks) I have:

1. My Mom, : Valerie hawks
2. A deceased father: The late Tim Hawks
3. Moms boyfriend who has lived with us for 12 years and is a father figure to me : Joe Jones

The Groom (Turner Costley) has

Mom and stepdad: Mr. And Misses Chris and Marie Smith
Dad: Steve Costley


Wow, that is a lot of folks. One more thing, The grooms family is paying for most of the wedding. Is it appropriate to list them before me even if I am the bride?

Thank you