With all the details you have to focus on with planning the wedding, the selection of an officiant is often a secondary action. Yet selecting the right officiant is an important element in the planning process.
The officiant is someone who will create a ceremony which is unique and special for you and your future spouse. The ceremony and presence of the officiant sets the tone and atmosphere for the entire day. The right officiant will also help bring a sense of peace and calm to the expereince of taking this important step in your life.
Thoughts to consider when selecting the right officiant:
Warmth, empathy and presence are the intangibles that you cannot necessarily ascertain over the phone.
Therefore request a meeting with the officant and ask questions that will help you understand the scope of services they provide;
Will they meet with you and take the time to get to know you?
Will they craft a ceremony that is unique to you?
Will they be able to incorporate your idea`s and desires into the ceremony?
Are they willing to help you write your own vows or suggest readings?
During the meeting with you are they focused on your needs and desires, or do you feel rushed?
Do you believe they have the ability to establish an atmosphere which feels inclusive of all friends and family.
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