Im 14 And Hes 15 And We Want To Get Married ..help?
I am 14 and he is 15 and we really love each other and we both are freshmen in high school and we want to get married. What should we do?
Posted by Amy; updated 12/04/06
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Don`t do it. You are too young, and have too much living to do before are ready to settle down and raise a family. You aren`t even old enough to vote or buy a beer, let alone old enough to drive a car or work in most states. Wait until you are educated and mature enough to raise a stable family.
Posted by tiffany; updated 12/04/06
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One word: WAIT. You both are way too young to even think about getting married. Don`t make a decision that will effect you negatively for the rest of your lives. Date and be in love, but wait until you are older and out of school to even consider it. TRUST ME: you will be making a huge mistake.
Posted by HF; updated 12/05/06
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OMG girl...u got to be kidding! 14 years old....how do ya`ll plan on surviving? Do u have jobs? Lets not even begin to start with u just stopped playing house, what 2 years ago? YOU can`t even begin to falthom what life is yet!!! You will be ruining your life if you think at 14 you know who u want to spend the rest of your life with! TRUST me i am talking from experience...i got married at 16! Yup thought he was the one, well 8 years and 2 kids later....at 31 I am finally able to start a career and no thanks to my loving EX...yes we are DIVORCED...imagine that! Just finish school...grow up about 5 more years and see what the future has to offer...marriage is no means to a way of staying in LOVE! Actually its not any eaiser when u get older...Statistics show people who get married before the age of 35(yes 35yrs.old)have a HIGH divorce rate of 85%...do u want to get pregnant and have no education and how do u plan to live then?
I am sorry I am coming on so cruel...but what did u expect posting something like that...just go to school...have fun, be a KID and get your EDUCATION and once, and only once u are an adult(i.e. 18-up)think about adult situations. Where is your family? What do they think?
Best of luck and I pray to god you do`t get married before atleast 5 years!
Posted by Lisa; updated 12/05/06
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Hey gurl im 14 also and i live wit ma boy here in los angles and we are gona get married pretty soon!! i dont really care wat ppl say about us we really in love and dats all dat matters!!! so yea to do wat u want and just ignore other ppl?? gud luck
Posted by evelyn; updated 06/05/08