MOH At My Wedding

My MOH is my best friend. We talk all the time even though she is in another state. When I started planning my wedding , our conversations went from talking all the time to I HAVE TO CALL HER FOR EVERYTHING(measurements ect.) My bridesmaids are helping and supporting so if I don`t boot her I wondered about her wearing the same color as the bridesmaids. She has hurt my feelings and I don`t think I want her to GLOW out from them. She didn`t do anything she just has the title.