Wedding Sponsors Hoped For

My fiance and I are both musicians working day jobs to make ends meet. We were friends first (met in school) and 2 years later he realized I was the one. We would love to get married at the end of April 2007, but are having a difficult time finding unique reception sites that are affordable. We are having our ceremony at a historic theatre and would love to find a reception location where it would be unique, fun, and not just the typical catering hall affair - we want guest participation, i.e. Casino tables, etc. We are looking around the Riverhead, NY location so if anyone has ideas, advice or sponsorships, we would be more than extremely grateful. Thank you for your time.