Wedding Help Desperaely Needed

For the past couple of years I quit my job to a care for my ill grandmother that recently passed. Single-handedly, I prepared everything for for funeral . Her not having any insurance led me to tap out my savings and now that I have escaped the abusive relationship, that I was involved in at the time, I have been blessed with a man that loves and treat me in ways that I only thought was unreal. We are planning a March wedding and are trying to figure out how to cut corners that best that we can. With us both being single parents, I am looking for any clues or thoughts on how for cobine his 3 and my 2 for a more hands on role to somehow begin forming a bond