Invited To The Shower But Not The Wedding

You are not wrong for being offended. If they had their maximum of guests that they could afford at the wedding. Then they shouldn`t have invited those to the shower either. Maybe that was there way of letting you have some part in the celebration. Then on the other hand. Would you have rather them not have invited you at all? Would that have been worse? Did you even get invited to the reception? Maybe they just didn`t have it in their budget to have anymore guests?

Perhaps there was a mail problem with your wedding invite. You should call one of the parents, or a wedding party member and ask. My stepson had some of his invitations eaten by the post office stamping machine and he had around 20 people that they had to mail out invites to again.