Sponsers

I really do not get the point of the sponser thing we all are on here looking for the cheapest things or advise we can get from other brides. What is the purpose of asking someone to help you pay for your wedding,i do not understand it at all i am paying for my own wedding myself im not asking anyone to help me not my parents his parent noone. Im busting my butt to pay for what i want for my wedding day and fortunatly i found alot of people that will let me make payment on alot of things my reception alone is going to cost me 5800.00 im gratefull that includes alot of things that i do not have to worrie about. Im purchasing things one at a time if you want the wedding that you dreams that is all fine and good but i think its rude and disrespectful to ask strangers to help you pay for your wedding