Help Me!!

Heyy everyonee..
Look i have a bit of a problem. Like alot of you i need help with my sweet sixteen. But theres a difference. Me and my best friend are having a combined party because we are only 11 days apart. But my best friend is a boy. So i cant really go for the whole "sweet" sixteen party.originally i wanted like a cinderella party theme but he wont go for it. He is too "cool" for that i guess. So please if yous have any ideas please let me know i am SOOO DESPERATE!!!