Children At Weddings

I personally believe that the idea that the bride and groom are `expected ` to invite children or pay for their childcare is unacceptable. As a teacher i like childern but it is the choice of the hosts what type of a day they want. I believe neither a church service or wedding reception is the place for children.
It is the choice of the bride and groom what day they want and equally the choice of the parents if they want to attend. I would suggest that some parents who make such a big deal are just using their children as an `accessory` - surely they could find `someone` to babysit. I would suggest that if they want to go out for a romantic night out they would find a babysitter - on that evening the parents do not want to be disturbed. Equally on my special day I do not want our nuptials disturbed with crying children. One has to respect the bride and grooms decision - they only get married once - as a parent you have lots of opportunities to show off and spend time with your children. Planning a wedding is already a stressful event - dont add more stress by going in a huff as your child has not been invited. Grow up!!!